Curiosity: Workshop, play-space, self-development, and community.
Curiosity is a very unusual exploration of sexuality, self-development, and liberation. It is an experiment in community and self-development that uses sexuality as a starting point.
Curiosity consists of three main parts: A workshop, a play-space, and the Sunday Sessions. (Other events and activities are also run exclusively for the Curious community, from time to time).
The workshop is your first port of call. You cannot attend any other activity until you've done the workshop - however, once you've done the workshop, you can enjoy the other elements of Curiosity as often as you'd like, knowing that everyone around you is on the same page in relation to language, safety, and agreements.
Curiosity consists of three main parts: A workshop, a play-space, and the Sunday Sessions. (Other events and activities are also run exclusively for the Curious community, from time to time).
The workshop is your first port of call. You cannot attend any other activity until you've done the workshop - however, once you've done the workshop, you can enjoy the other elements of Curiosity as often as you'd like, knowing that everyone around you is on the same page in relation to language, safety, and agreements.
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The workshop (generally on a Saturday afternoon, but occasionally on Sundays) includes discussion, theory, and practical exercises relating to communication and consent. It includes:
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The Play-Space (generally on the evening of the second Saturday of each month) is a "sex-positive" space, simply meaning that a lot of forms of self-expression are welcome. It is often described as being a space where adults learn to play again. You are encouraged not to put any pressure on yourself to have any particular kind of experience - especially if it's your first time at Curiosity. The play-space has a mood and feel that is generally light, accessible and friendly, and where you are welcome to simply chat and observe. But if you are feeling adventurous, you'll quickly come to appreciate the shared language and culture around consent and safety.
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The Sunday Sessions offer community-wide and small-group conversations. They include reflections and discussions about the Play-Space, integration of what you learned, reflections and celebrations, future goal-setting, and often a lot of community building. The Sunday Sessions often include special and profound conversations, and for many people is the best part of Curiosity.
The first time you do Curiosity, you must do the workshop, the play-space, and the Sunday Session all in one hit. After that, you are welcome to attend the play-space as often as you like, but are also encouraged to continue attending the Sunday Sessions (for free) since this is where so much learning and community building happens. There is often a bunch of folks that then wander off to the pub for a Sunday arvo drink, but that's not a mandatory part of the curriculum! |
Quick questions about Curiosity
WHEN IS IT ON?: Check the calendar.
INTENSITY: At least three out of four chillies. This event is run as safely and cautiously as possible, however the content can involve challenging material for some people.
WHO FOR: People that have already taken their first steps into the world of their sexuality (or that strongly relate to how this is pitched). People of any gender or sexual orientation (and that are comfortable with others of any gender or orientation). People that are interested in expanding and extending themselves. People who enjoy a lot of intention and consent in their adventures.
WHO NOT FOR: People looking for a slow first step on their journey of self-discovery. Curiosity is not for people uncomfortable with a diversity of gender and sexual expression - although you yourself are welcome regardless of how you identify, you must be comfortable being in a space with everyone from the very queer to the very straight.
Curiosity is not for people that are unable to look after their own emotional and mental-health needs, and is unlikely to be suitable for people in the middle of dealing with trauma or abuse. It is not a 'beginner' or 'entry level' event.
WILL THERE BE PAIR-WORK? Yes, during the workshop.
HOW WILL PAIRING BE DONE? If you don't already have a partner, pairing will be done completely randomly, via a number system, with no regard to gender or anything else. Please note, all exercises can be taken only to the level that's right for you at the time. The content of this workshop is educational rather than a dating service, so it's not assumed you'll be attracted to an exercise partner. A couple of activities involve asserting your boundaries in relation to touch, and making sure you can communicate and respond to "no".
CAN YOU WORK EXCLUSIVELY WITH ONE PARTNER? Yes.
NUDITY & SEXUAL CONTENT: The weekend is about sex and sexual expression. The Saturday workshop includes discussion of sexual content, and the play-space includes nudity and various expressions of sexuality. Although you don't need to have any interest in kink (bdsm), there is typically at least some kinky play.
COMMITMENT: You may sit out of any activity, or participate only to a level that's right for you. There is no expectation that you will want to play at the play-party; you are encouraged to observe only. There is no expectation you will get naked.
RATIO OF DISCUSSION TO EXPERIENTIAL: The workshop is about 50/50.
BRING: Saturday afternoon - water bottle, your own snacks, comfortable clothing. Saturday evening - comfortable clothing, or clothing that expresses your sexuality. More info upon booking.
WEAR: As above.
INTENSITY: At least three out of four chillies. This event is run as safely and cautiously as possible, however the content can involve challenging material for some people.
WHO FOR: People that have already taken their first steps into the world of their sexuality (or that strongly relate to how this is pitched). People of any gender or sexual orientation (and that are comfortable with others of any gender or orientation). People that are interested in expanding and extending themselves. People who enjoy a lot of intention and consent in their adventures.
WHO NOT FOR: People looking for a slow first step on their journey of self-discovery. Curiosity is not for people uncomfortable with a diversity of gender and sexual expression - although you yourself are welcome regardless of how you identify, you must be comfortable being in a space with everyone from the very queer to the very straight.
Curiosity is not for people that are unable to look after their own emotional and mental-health needs, and is unlikely to be suitable for people in the middle of dealing with trauma or abuse. It is not a 'beginner' or 'entry level' event.
WILL THERE BE PAIR-WORK? Yes, during the workshop.
HOW WILL PAIRING BE DONE? If you don't already have a partner, pairing will be done completely randomly, via a number system, with no regard to gender or anything else. Please note, all exercises can be taken only to the level that's right for you at the time. The content of this workshop is educational rather than a dating service, so it's not assumed you'll be attracted to an exercise partner. A couple of activities involve asserting your boundaries in relation to touch, and making sure you can communicate and respond to "no".
CAN YOU WORK EXCLUSIVELY WITH ONE PARTNER? Yes.
NUDITY & SEXUAL CONTENT: The weekend is about sex and sexual expression. The Saturday workshop includes discussion of sexual content, and the play-space includes nudity and various expressions of sexuality. Although you don't need to have any interest in kink (bdsm), there is typically at least some kinky play.
COMMITMENT: You may sit out of any activity, or participate only to a level that's right for you. There is no expectation that you will want to play at the play-party; you are encouraged to observe only. There is no expectation you will get naked.
RATIO OF DISCUSSION TO EXPERIENTIAL: The workshop is about 50/50.
BRING: Saturday afternoon - water bottle, your own snacks, comfortable clothing. Saturday evening - comfortable clothing, or clothing that expresses your sexuality. More info upon booking.
WEAR: As above.
